After cutting ties with me, my daughter now wants me to babysit her.

It’s helpful to have family watch our kids for free, but is it fair to expect it now? Amy, my daughter, hasn’t cared about me since she turned 18 and excluded me from major events.

Recently, she reconnected and complained about raising her two boys alone. She asked me to watch them on Saturdays.

I refused due to our strained relationship, and she called me selfish. Was I wrong to refuse? I’d appreciate your opinion and advice.